Of dinosaurs and tomatoes

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 It was dinner time, and it was one of those days. Our son refused to cooperate. I had to convince him somehow. With something interesting... 

We usually keep the TV off during dinner time, so that was out of question. 

Even the promise of super-boy stickers didn't work.. 

And that's when I got this Brahmastra ( all powerful  :) idea ! I told my son " If you come for dinner within the count of 3, I will tell you a story about a dinosaur and the magic carpet. If you come after that, I will tell you a story about tomatoes and potatoes" :D

He appeared in a flash, and to make sure I could see it , he said "Appa, please start the story of the dinosaur and the magic carpet" 

My thanks to tomatoes and potatoes for their dull story potential.

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